Do you like a girl, but don’t know exactly what to do to win her heart? Well then, let me help you out. I’m going to give you tips on how to pursue her and win her heart.
There is certainly no magic formula to winning a girl’s heart. There are, however, some principles that underlie creating and sustaining attraction with women.
Mutual love is something we all dream of finding and keeping for as long as possible.
Falling in love is a daunting experience, because a man in love is capable of doing things he normally wouldn’t dream of doing.
But love has a way of playing with our mind and making us see how far we are actually willing to go, once consumed by that insatiable emotion.
How to Win a Girl’s Heart
The key to what to say to a girl when you want to win a girl’s heart is qualifying. Let’s face it: Deep down, a lot of us feel like we’re not all that great. One way to make someone think you’re great is to tell them that they are.
However, we don’t do this through blanket, unearned praise. On the contrary, the only way to qualify someone to say to them in whatever way is best way possible that they’re all right by you has to be sincere.
Why You Should Qualify
Why even qualify in the first place? Because it’s going to put you head and shoulders above other guys, especially the ones who are “too cool for school.” A lot of guys are afraid that if they let a woman know that they’re interested that she’s not going to be interested in them.
In fact, nothing is further from the truth. She wants to know that you’re interested and she wants you to be genuinely interested. But, like with anything else, you’ve got to do it the right way.
Pay attention to the things she talks about, no matter how insignificant they seem
Girls absolutely love it when you actually remember something they randomly mentioned a few weeks ago, totally not thinking it would stick in your mind.
But there you are, surprising her with those cute earrings she fell in love with a few weeks back when she was in your part of town!
Those are the little things we remember and appreciate.
It’s not the gifts, it’s the attentiveness on your part!
It means you actually listen when she talks and care enough to remember stuff she wouldn’t expect you ever would.
See, it’s so simple. Just paying attention to her and keeping in mind the little things she mentions so you can show her later that you’re in it for the long haul as opposed to just wasting her time.
Being attentive, showing you care about all parts of her life and knowing how to make her happy is all it takes to win a girl’s heart.
Once you guys realize how simple it really is making a girl’s day, hopefully you’re going to put in the effort and do those little things more often.
Make her feel safe and protected around you
You don’t have to have the body of a Greek god or be in the best shape of your life.
That is not what I’m talking about here. Physical strength is not a prerequisite for her to feel protected.
Be her words of encouragement when she’s doubting herself and show her the strength she has within when she feels like she can’t go on.
Be the person who she goes to for everything when she doesn’t know what to do with herself. No judgment and no excuses, simply be there.
Make her see that you are a constant in a world full of elusive people. When she sees she’s got a real rock in you, her heart is going to be all yours.
You don’t have to be her superhero, you just have to make her see you would do anything for her.
Show her you can take care of yourself and don’t need her to keep you in check
Let me just tell you right now, if that’s what you’re looking for, you’re barking up the wrong tree.
Make your own lunch, tidy up after you make a mess and do your own laundry. It’s called being a grown-up.
If you want to win her heart, show her you’re an adult human being who takes care of himself with all aspects of your life.
Show her that you are organized, ambitious and don’t take anything for granted.
No girl is looking for an immature mama’s boy, remember that.
Show her that you’re much more than just what the eye can see and she’ll be letting her walls down, slowly but surely.
Give her compliments when she least expects it and make her day
If you notice your girl is having a particularly lousy day, try to brighten it with a compliment or two but only if it’s genuine and comes from the heart.
Maybe she’s not in the best mood or doesn’t seem to want to talk about it but that’s okay.
Just tell her how beautiful you think she looked this morning when she woke up and how lucky you are to have her.
But always speak from the heart. If you’re being dishonest she’s going to be able to tell.
Things she doesn’t feel she’s good at are the things you need to pump her up about. Make her see she’s so much better than she thinks she is.
A kind word from the man she cares about is going to mean the world, guaranteed!
It may not change the reality of her situation but it will damn well change her attitude and make her smile, even for just a few seconds.
What do you say to a girl that you like? Here are some tips.
Make It Genuine: Whatever you say to her should be something that you really think. Don’t feel like you have to make something up. Find something that you genuinely like about her, then tell her.
It Be About Her Looks: She already knows that you’re attracted to her on the basis of her looks. This includes how she dresses, her makeup, her hair… anything that’s about physical appearance is out.
Make It Direct: Don’t beat around the bush. Come out and say what you have to say.
Then Move On: After you qualify her, move on to the next part of the conversation. Don’t dwell on it. Don’t feel like you need to heap praise on her. Just tell her what you have to say, then move on.
This can be something simple like “You seem pretty cool” or “You’re all right.” Don’t overthink it. Just say something simple.